Tuesday, 29 December 2015

#7

Last week ke pasar tani. Orang dekat sini panggil market.

Aku: Yes, pergi pasar tani. Murah sikit barang basah.

Husband: Bukan pasar lah, Market.

Aku: *jeling* whatever...

Penat si husband suruh aku belajar cakap utara so that bila beli barang orang tak boleh tipu. Sebab loghat aku tak menunjukkan aku orang sini. Aku malas la nak prektis bagai. Nanti la dah 5 6 bulan dah blend in, boleh je auto tukar loghat utara. Disebabkan aku bebal gila dengar husband banyak kali suruh cakap loghat utara, aku jawab lah balik.

"Nak tipu, tipulah. Jumpa nanti dekat akhirat. Pasal loghat pun nak main harga ke?"

Hamek kau.

Monday, 21 December 2015

#6

Yesterday I made Kek Batik. Ni kes pergi pasar malam haritu then ternampak kek batik lalu teruja nak beli tapi bila dah dekat sepotong harga RM1. Sepotong kecil nauzubillah ye adik-adik.

So I decided to make one. Google the recipe and pesan dekat husband utk beli barang. Tapi sudahnya diheret aku sama ke Mydin mencari barang. Haihh.

My kek batik end up  like a 1 hard stone with overly loaded too much too sweet caramel with biscuits. Haha.

Coklat tak jadi. Jadi macam karamel pulak. Terlalu likat, maybe api kuat sangat so butter dengan susu plus choc powder tu jadi terlalu bersatu dan terlalu berkasih sayang dalam periuk tu. Masa gaul all the ingredients pun dah rasa likat dah tapi dah memang dasar degil kepala batu kepala angin, redah je tak ikut instruction.

I guess my kek batik will be a food that has longest period exist in the chiller.

Tapi sedap jugak kunyah kunyah sambil tengok movie. :)

Saturday, 19 December 2015

#5

It's been 8 days since I am married. Alhamdulillah. So far life as a wife; amazing.

We did little things together. Get sulk if one of us performing solat without asking if the other partner already performing the solat. It's always me by the way. Haha.

My cooking skills improving, though. Sikit tapi puas.
Get a credit for my cooking. Paling puas.

Kebiasaan pasangan baru berkahwin akan menikmati manis setiap masa, setiap perbuatan. Semoga rasa ini terus berpanjangan dan berkekalan. Bahtera yang dibawa laut tak selalunya tenang, kadang kala badai dan ribut pasti berkunjung. Semoga Allah merahmati kami suami isteri. Aminnn...

For those who were coming during my kenduri, syukran jazilan. Sekiranya terdapat kekurangan dimana mana, harap maafkan. May Allah bless you with barakah and may all your doas will be accepted by Allah SWT. InsyaAllah...



I have died every day
Waiting for you
Darlin' don't be afraid
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

And all along I believed
I would find you
Time has brought
Your heart to me
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

Tuesday, 1 December 2015

#4

I just made 1 drastic decision tonight. I told him to not to call me or even text me for a small matters. But big and urgent matters are allowed especially regarding our wedding.

He said "okay, let's do this. Are you ready?"

I'm so glad and so grateful for this. I pray nothing but the smoothness of the journey of an absolute different life in this coming December.

10 days left before our big day and I think this should be our mark to start appreciate the absence of each other. In the good way, I mean.

Oh it's 12 am now. 9 days left.


Monday, 23 November 2015

#3

I can't help myself thinking what is happening in our social networks recently. Why is everybody comparing others. For instance, breastfeeding moms and non breastfeeding moms. Like... seriously everybody?

Bagi aku, tiada istilah isu dlm penyusan anak. Bukan semua ibu boleh menyusukan anak masing-masing. Mungkin disebabkan faktor kesihatan atau sebagainya. Aku yakin, ilmu, kepentingan, manafaat dan kebaikan tentang penyusuan bayi zaman sekarang ni ada dimana-mana. Easy access. Pada ibu-ibu yang dapat menyusukan anak dari lahir sehingga anak berumur 2 tahun, tahniah diucapkan. Anda sememangnya ibu yang hebat! Tetapi ada juga sebahagian ibu yang hanya dapat memberikan susu pada anak sehingga berumur 6 bulan, atau 1 tahun atas faktor-faktor lain. Aku juga berpendapat yang ibu-ibu ini telah pun berusaha untuk memungut hasil susunya dengan cara yang pelbagai. Bukan sengaja tidak mahu menyusukan.

Jadi, mengapa perlu ada perbandingan?

Contoh lain, ibu yang bekerja dan suri rumahtangga.

Merujuk pada ekonomi sekarang, ramai isteri atau ibu juga menggalas tanggungjawab membantu suami dengan bekerja. Pada pendapat aku sendiri, ibu mana yang tak sayangkan anak-anak. Kalau ditanya dah pasti majoriti ibu-ibu bekerja ini ingin saja duduk dirumah memerhatikan sendiri anak-anak membesar didepan mata. Tapi apa pilihan yang mereka ada?

Dibezakan pula dengan ibu-ibu yang duduk dirumah menjaga anak dan melayan rumah. Mereka juga bukan duduk saja. Pasti kerjanya setiap masa tidak lekang. Ibu mengemas didapur anak sepahkan ruang tamu. Ibu mengemas di ruang tamu, nak sepahkan bilik tidur. Masing-masing ada cara masing-masing untuk hidup.

Jadi, mengapa perlu ada perbandingan?

Contoh kecil yang lain, doktor dengan nurse atau pembantu perubatan. What the heck? Everybody has their important roles in their work. Kalau tak ada nurse atau pembantu perubatan, siapa yang akan membantu doktor-doktor ini semua? Kalau tak ada doktor-doktor, macam mana nurse atau pembantu perubatan ni nak enhance knowledge mereka?

Lagi contoh, SPM qualification, Degree/Master/PHD qualification. Lah, sometimes it is just about money, some can overly afford, some cannot. So, why compare? Lagipun, siapa boleh jamin yang orang-orang yang ada sijil tinggi-tinggi ni boleh hidup senang? Siapa boleh jamin yang ada sijil-sijil tinggi ni ada attitude two thumbs up or very good in managing their real life? No one is it? One one.

Sikap orang zaman sekarang ni kadang-kadang suka membandingkan orang lain tentang apa saja untuk beritahu yang dia paling hebat. Apa kerja yang dibuat, tiada siapa yang dapat menandingi. Eh cop, ni bukan sikap orang zaman sekarang. Zaman dulu pun sudah ada. Menurun dari generasi ke generasi.

That attitude is really pathetic, annoying and for god sake please change yourself!


Tuesday, 17 November 2015

#2

A conversation with my fiancé lately, focusing about the household items. For example:

Bedroom:
"Do we need to buy only bed or 1 set of bed room furniture?"
"How about the mattress? The cheap one (around RM200 to RM400) or we just buy the expensive one? Hard times at the beginning but we can save more in future?"
"Pakai toto dulu je pun boleh kot?"
"I don't want a make up mirror set. It makes room looks smaller. Sempitkan bilik je"

Living room:
"TV nak beli right after we move in or a few months after? Tak penting sangat kot since kita ada laptop and internet?"
"Couch? yes or no?"

Yes. A conversation like that. Whether to buy or not to buy. Berbaloi atau tak berbaloi. Almost every time we spoke on telephone.

It's kind of weird actually, thinking about our future like that. Somewhat uncomfortable but really, it is one of the important thing in marriage.

But above all, I think the most important thing in house (yang wajib ada) peti ais, dapur memasak dan perkakasan dapur (kuali, periuk, sudip, pinggan, cawan). Juga, bahan masakan. Yang lain boleh tunggu. Apa gunanya kahwin kalau dapur tak berasap hoi!

Tuesday, 10 November 2015

#1

Okay..
So let's just define this as a new way for me to starting afresh.
I've deleted my previous blog due to some reasons.
The first ever blog, which was  happened to be my baby (seriously sayanggg sangat dekat blog tu) I consider to keep it to only myself.

Kehidupan sekarang so far Alhamdulillah.. Everything goes unimaginably well.
I will be getting married in about.. Oh it is in 31 days. InsyaAllah :)
New life journey, afraid yes, worried yes, happy yes. But never ever doubting the decision of getting married. Semoga Allah permudahkan segalanya.

This blog will represent my new life journey. So One-Nie, selamat datang semula ke dunia bloging.