#10

Aku: B nak makan apa esok?

Husband: Hmm.. nak ikan goreng je lah. Sayur.. nak sayur kangkung.

Aku: Makan itu je? 

Husband: Nak ikan goreng.... *muka comel*

Aku: *muka pishang*

Dan aku bersegeralah bangkit jam 5.30 pagi untuk masak menu seperti yang diatas. In fact lambat pun bangun, around 5.45 pagi.

Tiba-tiba pagi tadi.

Husband: Ayang buat apa? masak? (sambil mata tersepet-sepet, terkenyit-kenyit usha aku dari muka dapur. Terkejut katanya tengok aku bangun masak. Dah kenapa, selama ni pun aku bangun pagi mcm ni jugak, masak utk dia bawak bekal)

Aku: Masaklah. Kenapa?

Husband: Ok.

Selesai mengoreng kangkung, azan pun berkumandang.

Aku: B... ayang terlupa nak gosokkan baju kerja B.. B gosok boleh?

Husband: Eh, tak perlu lah. B pakai baju petak2 tu je hari ni.

Aku: *Muka blurr*

Husband: Kan harini B tak masuk kilang. B ada seminar lah dekat hotel. Kan dah bagitahu?

Aku: *slap forehead* Ya Allah, habis tu tak bawak bekal lah kan?

Husband: Tu la B pelik kenapa ayang bangun masak pagi2. 

Aku: Habis tu masa ayang tengah masak tu kenapa B tak tegur? (Nak salahkan husband lettew)

Husband: Ingatkan ayang malas nak masak tengah hari. (Apa punya alasan la..)

Aku pun terus mengangkat wudhuk dan memberi isyarat utk berjemaah subuh.

Nasib baiklah baru goreng kangkung dan masak nasi je. Kalau ikan pun dah goreng dah complete set aku bekal kan jugak laki aku nanti. Biar dia tak payah makan sedap dekat hotel tu. Ciss...

#9

I feel like I don't know what to write about, but at the same time I really wanted just to hit the keyboard and make a very long story out of it.

So let's just recall the activities that my husband and I did yesterday.

Since yesterday is Sunday, normally we will just hang around the house, do some house chores and stuffs. But yesterday's Sunday was a quite different. I think we really fully utilized our holiday. The best Sunday as a husband and wife. So far.

We planned to go for a walk or jogging at one of the park that my husband usually went when he was a bujang man. Bujang man? haha. Anyway, we planned to go for a jog right after subuh prayer. But only around 8 am we leave the house. I kind of pissed off at the very beginning. Yelah, keluar lambat lepas tu ada hati lagi nak pergi jugak. Matahari dah terpacak atas kepala kalau pukul 8 mendaki bukit. Tapi pergi jugak la after my husband insist.

So we finished our jogging around 10.30 pm. We were not immediately return to home but we went to pasar tani (market, ye market) to buy our 1 week food supply. Gedebuk gedebak gedebuk gedebak, returned home around 12 pm. Basuh kain, siang ikan, ayam, kemas dapur, sidai kain and all, tau tau je dah petang. My husband helped a little.

Phew...

5.20 pm my husband booked 2 tickets to watch Dilwale. Lama jugak bagi hint dekat husband yang kita naakkk sangat tengok cerita ni. The storyline was okay but feels a little bit crappy at the end of the story (King's scene - he found out who's Kaali) Spoiled ok scene tu. Tak ada pun tak apa kot. Just my two cents. Overall best jugak sebab lagu tema Gerua and Janam janam tu yang main peranan. Mula-mula aku yang semangat nak pergi tengok. Habis movie, dari shopping mall sampaila ke rumah, sebelum tidur laki aku tak habis duk berzikir janam janam janam. Aku tetiba annoyed.

Afterwards we were having a dinner, then a supper (a very sweet supper actually. Never thought that he would done that) and return home.

In addition my husband bought me shoes. 2 pairs! I am so touched by his kindness. Little that I know, this is how the feeling of being a wife would be. Semua benda pun dia bayarkan. Yes, masa bercinta dulu masing-masing bayar apa yang masing-masing makan, apa yang masing-masing beli. Nak keluar berdating pun fikir banyak kali. Bila dah kahwin ni, awkward nya Ya Allah. But I enjoyed it, nevertheless. Alhamdulillah :)

#8

Living as a husband and wife, tolerate is a must.

Tak ada kata aku dah buat ini, kau buat yang itu. Aku bagi ini, kau bagi itu. Tak ada. Tak boleh.

Ikhlas dengan pasangan sendiri InsyaAllah kasih sayang saling bertaut tak renggang tak putus. Tak luka, tak calar isi hati.

And I am now understand the feeling of loving the one who loves you unconditionally. You'll see the ikhlas in everything he did for you. Seems simple yet entah apa-apa. You can't even mad at him too long. You'll miss him.

And I missed him already :)